I’m sure you’re well aware that there are differences between a man that’s just being nice with you and one that is genuinely interested in you. But do you know them? What about making out someone falling in love with you with a player playing the field?
When it comes to signs of being in love, men and women do share similar signs but there are also gender-specific ones. And just like men often do things that women can’t comprehend, the opposite is also true. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Are you ready to figure out if he’s crazy about you? In this article, we’ll go over 12 telltale signs that he’s head over heels for you. Sit comfortably and go through this ‘’checklist’’.
Keep in mind that every man is different and so will behave accordingly. Even so, I do believe that we are similar in a lot of ways – so you may take the information in this article and decide to adjust it depending on your guy’s personality type.
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Is He Falling In Love With Me? 12 Signs To Look For
1 – Super Happy With You
I know you know that feeling. After all, how are you supposed NOT to feel happy when you’re hanging out with the one you love? When you rock a man’s world, his facial expressions and overall behaviour will automatically tell you about it.
Depending on how you interact with him, this can be more or less obvious.
When my relationship started, we were having a long-distance relationship. In this case, it may be harder to figure out if he enjoys talking with you. Crossed signals can be numerous. But don’t give up: there are still some interesting patterns to look for.
Here are a few of them:
- Often texts you first if you don’t contact him
- Often sends happy-looking emojis or less-subtly, hearts and such
- Does his best to fuel the conversation if it dies.
In real life dating, it would translate to smiling in your presence, being playful, trying to touch you (in a non-sexual way).
2 – Only Talks To You
This may not apply if you’re a master manipulator trying to send mixed signals to your target not to get caught. But chances are that you’ve been victim of this behaviour too, just like many people.
Falling in love implies that you consider someone to be special. In other words, you’re obsessed about them. So, it’s only natural than no matter how many people are around you, you’ll always find yourself talking to them specifically: after all, they are the one who get your full attention.
Because they’re special.
For shy people, this would be slightly different. They would likely be listening to your every words more than others, which is another way of being captivated by you. But the idea remains the same: they feel compelled to be with you.
3 – Very Sensitive With You
Here’s the truth. I don’t really care about other people’s opinions, and so do you to some extent. If somebody were to being extremely insulting, such as saying ‘’go kill yourself’’ or ‘’you’re ugly’’, you’d probably just brush it off thinking it was just an as*hole.
But what if it was the one you’re crazy about? It would likely do you a lot of harm: because you treasure their opinion. So their words can hurt you. Men work the same in that regard.
I’m not implying you should ‘’test’’ them to see how they react – that would be going overboard. Just try to measure how much your words have an impact on him, compared to how he reacts with other people’s words.
4 – Ready Anytime
There are many factors when taking this one into account. Nonetheless, it’s still a pretty good indicator that he’s fallen in love with you. Is he ready to cancel his plans just to be with you if it’s truly necessary?
Think about it: you wouldn’t prioritise somebody if you didn’t value them very much or if it didn’t seem important enough. You would likely postpone seeing them until it suits you.
But if it was a one-time only occasion, you would find the time to see them. And so would men.
5 – Physical Contact
Sure, writing texts and talking over the phone can be fun but it gets old very quick. In intimate relationship, there’s the word ‘’intimate’’. So it’s only natural to want to escalate things and be around the one we cherish.
It doesn’t have to mean sex, or physical touch. Just by trying to be around you – meaning inviting you somewhere – he’s showing an undeniable will to get closer to you.
6 – Cares For You
Depending on your past experiences and personality, you may say two things: either that nobody cares about what you say, or that everybody loves when you’re talking. The truth is in the middle.
Try to look at it without this filter: does he truly care about you and listen with intent to what you say, or is he just trying to be nice? The difference might be subtle, but there’s a world of a difference.
7 – He Has This Look In His Eyes
You know the look I’m talking about. Those eyes sparkling with joy and love. We’ve likely all experienced this at some point. It gives away one’s love for somebody else pretty quickly.
Those are the eyes that say, ‘’You’re special to me.’’ If he looks at you the same way he looks at other people, then he’s likely not interested in you.
8. Get Back To You As Soon As Possible
I will always remember when I first fell in love with my partner. I just couldn’t get her out of my head: she was the first thought I had in the morning, and the last one I had before my head hit the pillow.
So, it’s only natural that whenever I received a message from her – I would text her back off the bat.
However, when considering this factor, just know the following:
1- Some people have busy schedules.
Making it impossible for them to get back to you asap. There’s nothing wrong with that, so don’t freak out if your guy doesn’t reply in a while.
2 – Some people might use this to their advantage
If you’ve ever did some research on this topic before, you should know that one very famous tactic is not to answer immediately not to come across needy. I personally don’t see anything wrong with that – after all, why pretend I’m busy if I’m not? You might as well as start being really busy instead of faking it.
But the fact of the matter is that some people do use this ”strategy”, so it can be a possibility.
9 – Tries To Solve Your Problems
The keyword here is ”try”. You see, one fundamental difference between men and women is that men are problem-solvers. If you’ve ever been in a relationship before, you should know what I’m talking about: the woman gets back home and share her problems with the one she loves. But instead of just listening, the man tries to find solutions to her problems.
”You should do this instead.”, he says. But the woman goes, ”No, you don’t understand. Here’s my problem!” And the guy goes on, ”No, I know. I understand. It’s because you did this wrong. Do THIS instead.” and then before you know it, we have a couple arguing!
Women want to share their feelings, whereas men want to solve problems.
But it’s not necessarily true in every relationship. After all, we wouldn’t bother helping somebody whom we don’t value. If he’s trying hard to help you, then he’s probably into you.
10 – He Wants To Get To Know You
Showing interest in somebody is a surefire way to keep a conversation last. So whether or not he’s really interested in knowing you, the fact that he’s actively working at keeping you engaged means that he’s falling for you!
The difference between a player just playing the field and a guy genuinely interested in your person can be summarised in this point: if he’s looking for sex, it’s unlikely he’ll even care about what you’re saying.
But just because somebody asks questions doesn’t mean they’re necessarily interested or that they care for you.
The real test comes in the remembering part. Think about it, do you even remember a stranger’s birthday? We put our focus on what we’re interested in – and this can be friends, family or somebody we love.
11 – Your Opinion Matters To Him
Do you even consider seriously the opinion of an outsider you don’t even know in a given matter? Of course not, because you don’t trust that person.
On the other hand, you might consider more seriously the opinion of a closed one.
12 – Put His Best Foot Forward With You
Notice how he behaves with other people. Does he seem more gentleman, or confused with you? These are very telling signs because it shows he wants to blow your mind.
Putting their best foot forward means different things to different people. For some people, being elegant might do the trick. For others, being real is enough. Some other types of people may include: being overly sweet, looking more confident than usual, more positive, happier..
Is He Falling In Love With Me – Conclusion
Out of those 12 signs, which ones did he tick? These signs separately might not mean anything, but it all makes sense when it comes together.